What's In a Name?

What's in a name? A person's name and its meaning can often be a powerful influence in shaping their character. I enjoy researching the meaning of names. Its one of the first things I do when I meet someone of interest. My name, Amber, means "jewel." My middle name, Erin, means "Ireland" or "peace." Combine the two and I am a "jewel of peace" or a "jewel of Ireland." As an American I claim the former definition instead of the latter.

So why title this blog Honey Writer? For several reasons actually.

When I was in high school our Stake Patriarch in Lexington, who had also served as my Mother's Stake President in Atlanta, lost his wife. Although I never knew her, I attended her funeral out of love and respect for our Patriarch and his family. During the service I learned that Patriarch Nichols, throughout his married life, addressed his wife as "Honey." Eventually, others did the same. What began as a petname became her name to everyone who knew her. Although I love the name Amber, I have always wanted to be known and called another name by my close friends and family.

When I was in middle school the movie Fried Green Tomatoes was released. I remember snuggling up on the couch with my Mom to watch the movie and being amazed at Idgie's bee charming capabilities. I knew at that moment I wanted to keep bees.

Discussing this new interest with my Dad, he shared my great-great grandfather was a beekeeper and, like Idgie, was capable of charming bees. I determined immediately it was a sign, and perhaps, even my destiny to keep bees.

In high school I fell in love with James Bond and dreamed of becoming a Bond girl. I would tell everyone I would meet, "I want to be a Bond girl." Some would laugh or smile in response, while others would tease or mock me. I didn't care. It was a dream and everyone is entitled to having dreams.

Honey Ryder, played by Ursula Andress, is my favorite Bond girl. To me, she is equal to Bond in every way. She's intelligent, capable, strong and sexy. In addition, her name perfectly describes her character; sweet and capable or sweet and dominant. "Honey" being sweet and "ryder" or "rider" suggesting one is capable of managing or dominating another.

As a fluffy, aging, average-looking adult, my dreams of becoming the next Honey Ryder are rapidly diminishing. However, I can be a Honey Writer, which may be the next best thing.